Let's jump back in time to when we were kids, sitting in a big circle at an elementary school dance. The music was loud and everyone was singing along, bouncing up and down in time to the beat. It was a blast! For many of us, those memories still remain fresh today. So let's take a trip down memory lane and explore what made elementary school dances so special.

The Music

The music that played at elementary school dances ranged from classic hits like "YMCA" to the newest pop songs. It didn't matter which era the song was from; everyone knew all the words and danced their hearts out. We would sing along with our friends, jumping around and having fun. Even now, when we hear these songs playing on the radio or at a party, it brings us right back to those days of dancing with our friends.

The Games

In between songs, there were always some fun games like Musical Chairs or Freeze Dance. Everyone would gather around while the DJ called out instructions for how to play each game. Everyone loved joining in on these games because it gave us a chance to let loose and show off our creative moves! We also got to make new friends as we competed against one another in teams or as individuals.

The Fun Atmosphere

What really made elementary school dances special was that they were such a fun atmosphere where everyone could be themselves without worrying about judgement or criticism from anyone else. We could just forget about all our worries for a few hours and just enjoy ourselves with our friends! It was an opportunity for us to express ourselves through music and dance and let out any pent-up energy we had accumulated during the week of school. 

Elementary school dances are some of our most cherished childhood memories; they remind us of simpler times when life was carefree and full of joyous moments with friends that will live forever in our hearts. If you're feeling nostalgic for those days or want your kids to experience something similar, why not plan an old-fashioned elementary school dance? You can recreate all your favorite memories while making new ones with your family! No matter how old you are, it's always nice to take a break every now and then, turn up some good music, and have some fun—just like we did back then!  Make sure Black and White Affair is your Dj to make your  Elementary School event memorable.

Covid Update 6-2020

In California the limit to gather is 10 but it is slowly opening. I feel a little foolish writing about weddings since we been under lockdown for about four months. I started to put down my thoughts but I felt fake. So I just want to give an update of what is happening on my end.

 I have been getting tons of music. I mean lots of music to sort through. This is the time to do it. My baby has a bib that say snacks on snacks on snacks. So I am literally getting songs on songs on songs.

  Maybe out of 100 djs, there were maybe 25 who learned from spinning vinyl. And out of those 25 there are probably 10 who still have the vinyl and turntables. I am part of those 10 percent who still have vinyl. When I was converting my vinyl tracks to MP3s it was a super long process. I had to play each song and record it. Once it was recorded I would have to burn it on a cd then master the volume. But a little known fact is when you download a cd on iTunes its default is at 192 bitrate. So I did all my vinyl and converted it to the default. It does sound fine to the ear but if you were going to play at a stadium it would not sound as crisp as a 320 bit rate. So That is what I have been doing is getting songs I already have but at a higher bit rate. Also going through my collection and just keeping songs I would play. Sometimes more is too much and its good to have the essentials and the one tracks that make you different as a performer. It is always good to review what you have and what tracks you have forgotten. This time last year, I was super busy but these past four months I did not throw in the towel but rather looking to come back stronger and more organized than ever. 

Some djs are prepared and send out an organized planner for bride and groom to fill out. I send that out and have couple complete it on Google docs so it can be edited at any time. I also include a long list of most popular songs to help out brides and grooms pick their music. 

If you are having a dj provide the ceremony music, I always recommend to have about 30 to 45 minutes of pre-ceremony music. I typically start music 30 minutes before the ceremony but sometimes the bride and groom need extra time or maybe some guests have not arrived yet. 

The Pre-ceremony music I mostly play instrumentals but it can be anything the bride and groom can cook up.

The Processional music can be 2 to 3 songs for wedding party, groom, and bride. 

The Recessional song would be the song everyone exits to.

In your song selections make sure you add the must play songs that you want at your wedding. Make sure to include songs that your guests and family would like also. Maybe you can include the old classics your parents would enjoy for the dinner portion of the reception. Keep in mind during the cocktail hour your family and wedding party will be taking photos so make sure your must play songs will be played after the cocktail time. 

On the same note, please let the dj know of what songs not to play. Maybe you do not want the Chicken Dance played so make sure the Dj does not play it. I never play it unless the hosts ask me to. There maybe a few songs on that list or maybe include a genre of what not to play.